John and Vanda Todman are
good friends of ours from our previous church; they love Jesus, are passionate
about world mission and have an infectious confidence in the goodness of
God. (Alastair and Ros always remind me
of them). They have two sons, Clive and
Neil who, after kicking against the faith of their parents, were soundly
converted and gave their lives to Christ in their late teens. Louise and I did marriage preparation
classes for Clive and Sarah before their wedding and so it was with particular
sadness that we heard the news some five years ago that Sarah had terminal
cancer. She died in 2009 leaving a
grieving husband and two small girls.
Clive preached powerfully at his wife’s service of thanksgiving and I have
given away many copies of the cd as it was an incredible testimony to God’s
incredible and amazing grace.
A couple of weeks ago I got a call from Vanda to say that
their other daughter-in-law, Elaine, had been diagnosed with cancer and the
outlook was bleak. The next day I drove
to their home in Bath and sat with them.
The pain and sadness was grievous but the knowledge of God’s presence as
we read scripture, prayed and shed tears, was profound.
Neil is the pastor of Headley Park Church and as well as
shepherding his family (they have two small boys) through this ordeal he is also
shepherding his church. To this end he
has written a blog (diary) from the point at which they heard the
diagnosis. I would like to encourage
you to read what he has written thus far.
You’ll read of how they have shared the news with their children and how
they have sought to view their situation through the lens of the gospel. Its real, gutsy and honest and shines a huge
spotlight on the all the sufficient grace of God. It’s the kind of faith that I hope I have in
the midst of such a trauma.
Do yourself and the Kingdom a favour and visit http://www.headleyparkchurch.org.uk/# Track back (hitting “View older posts”) until
you get to 7th January and read through.
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